If you think you might be exempt from that but you're not sure, or would like to be, give me a call. Alternatively if you'd like to come up and visit me, that would be rockin'. Also call me, I don't know where I'll be at any given time.
If you're far away (or not) and would like to do something small, send flowers. It lifts her spirits to get them, especially unexpectedly. Her favorites are anything exotic looking, especially Tiger Lilies, but she also likes Carnations. Send them to Tandra Martin-Dutcher, Wesley Hospital, Wichita, KS. Any flower shop in town should know where to go if you just say Wesley Hospital.
If you'd like to do something large, I've already got a thousand or so in medical bills. I accept cash. :-D
I'll update as I can. I'll try to remember to post from my phone tomorrow when she goes into surgery and when she comes out so you guys can pray or meditate or send good energy or keep her in your thoughts or burn a candle or whatever it is you do.
Thanks so much for all your support. It really does help. It seems like a comment on a blog that only exists in cyberspace wouldn't mean that much, but the words of support really are appreciated - every one of them. Thank you.